cold night

Jacob my son, it is a very cold night. If you are ever treated in a cold way by any person or ostracized in any way then always remember that it is their loss because you are the gem stone, you are the pillar in the temple. You are the stone in the hillside. 

You are probably a man of integrity, I would certainly expect that you are honest and polite, I gave you a middle name that means to be polite. 

Don't try to appease them or please them. Just let them go. Every person on Earth gets the cold treatment from time to time.