It was my son's birthday the other day and some friends and family came over that had not seen my bar. They said Alan, is that a Bar in your sitting room. I said yes it is. They didn't ask why; it's because I want to create a man cave, a little world where I close the door and for a short time the rest of the world doesn't exist. It is a place where I can be a big kid and play games and not think very much.
The only part of my man cave that exists is the bar with a 100 litre fish tank and comfy stools.
One day I could buy recliners, 4 of them and bring people there to play computer games.
At the moment you can sit at the bar, have a tea or coffee and look at the fish swimming around not thinking very much, just existing, breathing. T
Thinking less helps, overthinking makes you sad.