Jacob my son, it is cloudy today but I am sure your mind will be clear.
There are times when it is good to argue and there are times when it is bad. If you are defending yourself in a courtroom, then it is good. But normally it is just a waste of your time and risk of provoking destructive behavior.
If you can't reason with someone in 10 minutes then you can't reason with them in 1 day. Why waste your breath. Just accept that the person doesn't have your point of view. If you win an argument then what is the prize? Air? Dust? Your reasoning is a gift so why try hard to give it when they don't want it.
